So the problem is....Dad's the nest site locator. And even tho' Mom is all for accepting the nice nest (N2B) the people started, Dad has a certain masonic pride in being "the builder".
Now, I think if everyone just puts out lots of good vibes whenever Dad is in the nest, and if you're lucky enough to be present at the hatchery, doing the same there, we can get him over the hump, he'll swallow his masculine pride, and he'll go about remodeling N2B into "the best nest ever"!!!!....at least until another one's necessary.
Just a thought.
I'm a product of the '60's!