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[LBLNJ0668]

Hi Paulie, The younger one isnt so easy to handle.  He finally got his IEP sent to him and I have been bugging him all week to send me the copy he hasn't yet. I sounded like a broken record.  He was supposed to print and bring a copy last Friday nope he didnt.  He makes all these plans for the same time and forgets. I need to step away I tried now it's up to him to reach out to me.  so, I cannot help until he does. I keep telling him he is able to get all these benefits. I guess it' not important. I told him he will need a part time job as well. he ignores.  He definitely needs help understanding bills and budgets He doesn't get at all I think he will have things shut off before he understands. Any suggestions?

I go back to the office January 8??  That Monday. I am trying to go back a 3 days in office 2 home every week.  I don't like office 2 weeks in row

[paulie]

Good Afternoon,

Hi LB, I googled meaning of IEP. I remember you've said he is intellectually challenged.  Your younger nephew is still in school? High school? If so can't the school get involved to help him? I'm assuming he lives with his brother/your oldest nephew who will be homeless in January?
There's so many unknowns I don't have any suggestions. Besides it sounds like you've done as much as you can already to help.

Good luck and I hope you get the work schedule that you want.

[LBLNJ0668]

Hi Pauiie not in hs or college one is 27 but never got the help he needed.  He could get ss disability benefits, but he needs his IEP's from the school.  THey have on record. since he is an adult he needs to  get them himself.   

[LBLNJ0668]

good morning, its foggy

[LBLNJ0668]

good morning

[paulie]

Hi Pauiie not in hs or college one is 27 but never got the help he needed.  He could get ss disability benefits, but he needs his IEP's from the school.  THey have on record. since he is an adult he needs to  get them himself.   

Hi LB, Oh! Well that explains a lot more. Hey there's just so much you can do. You've tried your best. The rest is on him.

Does your father try to talk to both as their grandfather? They should respect and look up to him.

Any word from work about your schedule yet?

Are you seeing any of those weird drones in NJ?

Was super foggy here yesterday too. Today rain and more rain and warm. Tonight temps drop 30 degrees to 20 with feels like temp 15.

[LBLNJ0668]

Hi Pauie,

My father gave up on the alcholic (scott) He has spoken to cory.  I decided cory is just clueless he doesnt listen I will expalain more latger aftger work when I have time

Nothing on the schedule but he sees no problem 

I havent seen the drones (I am not out at night) but I may have heard them.   If I hear the noise I wiol go outside to check. All I do is see about it on fb.  Its kind of scary

[LBLNJ0668]

The Drones are getting scary. Reports on FB page tonight they are all over the place!!!! Some where I used to live in south Jersey and money bu me now.  groups of like  12.   (I counted in 1 photo) I may take a ride tomorrow once it gets dark.  I have seen repots they start as soon as it gets dark, and they are all coming from the ocean.   I looked out side now cause someone just posted but too many trees where I live.  I will take a ride tomorrow.  its to the point I just got an alert a town near y will be flying a drone tomorrow morning  I laugh about it but when no one will talk or says they don't know is pure BS!!!!!!!! Honestly I am getting nervous 

My nephews There is nothing more I can do.  The alcholic I gave up a while ago.  The other one I just don't know. He either doesn't want the help or there is definitly something more wrong than I thought and I just cannot help him.  I have just about given up.  I sound like broken record every time I talk to him.

[paulie]

Hi LB, I figured your father has spoken to both of them. You and your father both care and you both have tried your best to help them.
It is very sad I agree. Don't worry about sounding like a broken record. It just means you care.

About the drones. I've heard on the news the things you mentioned. Tonight the news said they're the size of a bus. I agree it's BS when news etc says no one knows what they are. Soooo tired of people blowing smoke. Sightings are being reported in Pennsylvania now too.

[LBLNJ0668]

Good morning, I heard they are by the Poconos and now NYC.   Last night FB was blowing up there were a lot all over all night some were by me but the trees blocked. I wa sin my PJ's so didn't want to drive around.  I may go out tonight around 600 They have been spotted around that time. 

I can't do much more with nephews I will talk to them but no more advise.  I think they need to fail in order to realize.  They just tell me lies after lies after lies. 

[paulie]

Oh the Poconos in PA. News on TV this morning said some NJ residents said they're ready to take matters into their own hands. It's being downplayed a lot. It's definitely confusing.

Good that you'll continue to talk to your nephews but no more advise. You've tried 100%. All the lies they tell would be verrrry frustrating for sure. General conversation is good to maintain contact.

Well TGIF to you.

[LBLNJ0668]

Oh Paulie, I am not talking to the alcholic Nephew  I am done with himI wi tak to the other one but I will not call every day.  I think  He knows I am frustrated with him  he didnt call yesterday and so far not today It's  such a long story  I think he is lieing to me or is just clueless

[LBLNJ0668]

good morning.  I am starting to get up eatly again  but going t sleep late so now tired again     

[paulie]

Hi LB, Oh! Okay. I misunderstood about your oldest nephew. I see your frustrations with both nephews.

Isn't it a good thing you're waking earlier because of work?

[LBLNJ0668]

good evening, I thought I posted this morning  I guess I let time get away from me.