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[LBLNJ0668]

Here is the letter my nephew wrote to my brother and read during the services.  He didn't think he could do it and was going to have the rabbi read it but my father was so impressed with the letter and asked him to try.  He succeeded





Dear Dad, I want to take this moment to tell you how much you mean to me and to say goodbye. You've been the best father I could have ever asked for, and I love you with all my heart. I want you to know that I'll be okay, and that you don't need to worry about me. Thank you for always accepting and loving me for who I am. Also, I know I haven’t been perfect, but I give you my word I will do all it takes to improve my life. I cherish the memories we made together, especially our trips to Disney World with Grandma Dottie and Grandpa Bennett in 1994, 1995, and 1997, and then again together in 2011 and 2020 staying at the epic Disney Polynesian, Disney Contemporary, and Disney Yacht Club Resorts! The times we played football, soccer, and other sports in the pool with Cory and our friends are moments I'll always hold dear. My friends and Cory’s friends also loved you and thought you were funny as well. You always had my back, and for that, I am eternally grateful. I promise to be successful and strong for myself and for Cory. Who could forget you being the assistant soccer coach for our teams and going to all the practices during the week, and games on Saturday mornings? All the players looked up to you. You made practices more enjoyable. That’s just a magical quality you’ve always had. I loved becoming a Giants fan like you, watching the games together. They’ve sucked more so than being good, and who can forget your epic meltdowns, either yelling at the players, refs, or coaches, with Mom in the background saying, "You know they can’t hear you, right?" I definitely followed in your footsteps as I get heated too. There were also good times watching the Giants though, celebrating their two Super Bowl victories in 2008 and 2012. And of course, who could forget about being a Yankees fan, watching their games together, and celebrating their World Series wins, and of course, the Germany national soccer team. Watching Germany World Cup and Euro Cup games, always coming so close to winning it all, finishing 2nd or 3rd from 2006 to 2016, and finally celebrating their World Cup win in 2014 are moments I’ll treasure forever. Also, who could forget our trip to Germany, visiting extended cousins of ours, and that melancholy visit to Buchenwald Concentration Camp? Of course, also all the family dinners at Grandma Dottie’s and Grandpa Bennett’s for holiday dinners and visits, and listening to Bon Jovi and Van Halen in the car on the way to Grandma Nancy and Grandpa Vinny’s for holidays or family visits were such special times. Also, how can I forget that for about two years straight every Saturday morning, I would make you watch The Lion King for two years straight? I must have driven you nuts. Oh, and going to the movies to see Harry Potter, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, and hundreds of other movies with you. Binge-watching shows like 24 and Law and Order SVU were also unforgettable. I will always remember you and Mom. If I'm ever blessed with children, I will share all the wonderful memories of you and Mom with them, so it will feel as if they knew you both. I will also make sure they follow the legacy of growing up as Yankees, Giants, and Germany fans. Please say hello to Mom, Grandma, and all the other relatives for me. I promise to do everything I can live my life the best way possible. I look forward to the day when I can meet you and Mom again in heaven. Don’t be scared, Dad. Soon, you’ll be with the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, Mom, Grandma Dottie, and other family and friends. You’ll be surrounded by their love and peace. Rest easy. I love you forever, Dad, you were my best friend. Your son, Scott

[LBLNJ0668]

good morning

[paulie]

HI I just finished my last day of in-patient PT I start out patient next week.  I did way too much this past weekend so I will be spending this week for me.  before I go into helping my nephew's mode.   My one nephew needs to go to in rehab for his alcohol addiction pus to address mental issues as well.  my 2nd nephew needs to be evaluation to get a diagnosis we think he in intellectual depravation.  Once he's tested we can get him the help he needs and he may qualify for some assistance in various ways. My father's girlfriend's daughter is a counselor so she knows how to go about it.

I am exhausted,   ooh I am also getting some things fixed in my apartment, the microwave handle broke off and the lock of the screen patio door broke off

Hi LB, I hope you're resting and taking some time for yourself this week like you planned.

Good about your PT progress.
How old are your nephews? Wishing them the best.
Very good about the counselor who can provide info and help. That's a God send to help them.

Great about getting repairs done.

Your nephew's letter is full of family memories and love for his father and family in Heaven. Your father has good reason to be impressed with him. You too. 

Take care.

[LBLNJ0668]

good afternoon

[LBLNJ0668]

good day.   

[LBLNJ0668]

good morning

[paulie]

LB, You're still in my thoughts and prayers.

Also letting you know we're heading to the cabin today soon.

[LBLNJ0668]

good morning

[karengramke]

How are you doing LB?   Hope you and your family are settling into a new routine and that your nephews are in new situations.  I assume some one is dealing with your brother's affairs/estate.  Not an easy time for any of you.

[LBLNJ0668]

Hi Karen thanks.  I took last week for myself I am trying to settle in helping my nephews.  My oldest one who is the alcoholic will be going to in patient rehab Wednesday> he wanted to wait until after the election because he wants to vote, I didn't have the heart to tell him we may not know who wins for a week after.  I am sure they have tv there, I hope.  I just pray he goes. he always said he would do the outpatient but never went.  I hope he is serious this time. he seems to be, but he has fooled me multiple times. 
His brother has issues too we are going to work on him next to get tested   My uncle is a counselor and thinks he has Intellectual deprivation.  My father got some numbers for him where he can get ss benefits.  One good thing is he has a job.  But it doesn't pay enough. we'll see what happens. I told my father i would call if he wants.

I start out patient PT Tuesday. Looking forward to that.  I am keeping up with all my exercises in the meantime. I think I finally feel some improvement with the pain.   I am tempted to get in car today to see if i can drive around my apartment complex.  They said it will be a minimum of 4 weeks before I can drive. Tuesday will be 3 weeks so maybe I should wait I mopped did laundry and vacuumed. 
 

[LBLNJ0668]

good morning

[LBLNJ0668]

good evening, I let the day get away from me.   

[LBLNJ0668]

good afternoon, the lack of sleep is catching up to me, for sure

[paulie]

Hi! Been a busy past couple days and also with 9 yr granddaughter's stomach virus and walking pneumonia both at same time. God bless her. Was very hard on her.

LB, Hoping out patient PT is going good for you. Hoping also your nephew voted and is still agreeing to go to rehab and help is available for your other nephew. Where are they living?

Hi Karen

The past week and today temps very warm. High 70s and 80 in early November. Whew!

[LBLNJ0668]

Sorry about your Grand daughter Paulie,  I hope she is feeling better. it's been 80's here for past few days or high 70's  I want my fall weather.  PT is fine today is my 2nd day LOL   I did get in my car to start it to mke sure it still runs.   LOL I was tempted to try and drive around th apartment complex   I am tired of relying on people to drive me   I have been sleeping in everyday  I get up between 8:30 and 9:30    Going back to work is going to be hard!!!!