LB One thing may have been mentioned but not stressed enough is the phone.
My neighbor watch dogs when I lost Ton started "watching out" for me. They of course were concerned. House too big, sell it - You can't do this/that call them for help - Two of them actually invaded my bathroom as I was blowstyling my hair because I wasn't answering the phone or doorbell. Carry a phone, call me, don't over work yourself, etc etc etc. We know it is well meant and honest caveats. But we do have to take things to heart. It's irritating and degrading, it's so terribly disappointing - but IT IS VITAL.
I've never quite mentioned my June episode. Went out to start some picking up of the outside area. Starting by rescuing the paper thrown down at the end of the driveway. Wham - I couldn't breathe. Sat down on a chair in the garage. How sever does that have to be? Stupid I told myself - 911. Less than 5 minutes for them to show up. Right down the road, I was still on with the phone help. Started shoving oxygen tubes everywhere and given injections. It was 6 days at hospital. Obviously they all did their jobs. I made it, and it wasn't just luck. Yes, I had taken the suggestions from all but I had to acknowledge the obvious - I needed extra help and I needed it fast. I also took as a msg from that Guy above. If I'm smart HE will take care of me. We have to be wise by someone else's rules, not just our own.
Last week I did 2 followup appointments; one more this week. I was slapped into reality by the cardiologist's comment - we almost lost you. Great doc, head of cardio at my hospital, great person, my doc for 20 years. He looked me hard in the face "Too many of us in your life don't want to lose you." Be smart, be careful, and pray for all help in getting through these hard parts.
Darn I'm glad I made it.
Then last week he told me he is retiring! He planned on 65; in 2024 he'll be 67.
He said he (and I'm sure his wife/family) is going to take his own advise. See, doctors can be double smart. Next checkup I was asked to bring some materials on destinations about which we had talked. He loved the travel logs I'd given him when he asked - OK where were you this time. - Part of my checkups. LOL
Moral is all of us have to be smart and ENJOY!.
P